Men, please! I have a question about making love, not just screwing. UPDATED!?

Well if it was with someone that I loved for the first time and she was a virgin and I knew that. I would definitely go easy mattering by her expression. The tears part may have threw me for a loop, I probably wouldnt know what to do, but mattering if your smiling or not I am sure I would wing it well enough...seriously that probably what would have happened. Hopefully you told him that it was tears of pleasure and emotion, I am sure I wouldnt care if someone told me I pleased them well. No worries.